Indian Wedding Customs for Foreign Couples
A plain-language introduction to common Indian wedding functions and rituals, for couples or guests less familiar with the traditions.
It's usually more than one day
Indian weddings, particularly larger ones, typically span multiple functions across several days rather than a single ceremony — commonly including a mehndi (henna application), sangeet (music and dance evening), haldi (a turmeric ritual), the wedding ceremony itself, and a reception.
Dress and etiquette
Bright colours are generally welcomed and expected at Indian weddings, in contrast to some Western etiquette around avoiding bright colours as a guest. White is traditionally associated with mourning in many Indian communities and is best avoided for daytime ceremony functions, though this varies by region and family.
Rituals vary by region and religion
India's wedding customs differ significantly by religion and region — a Hindu wedding, a Sikh Anand Karaj, a Christian ceremony, and a Muslim nikah each follow distinct traditions. If you're attending as a guest, it's reasonable to simply ask the couple or their family what to expect, rather than assuming one set of customs applies universally.
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